I attended a Monday morning WW meeting last week
since we were out of town for my usual Tuesday morning meeting. This was a new group to me, however, a few
faces looked familiar since I know I have attended that meeting a time or two
in the past. It is also quite a large
meeting and since I didn’t really know anybody, I shared about my weight loss
as it was relevant to the topic.
After the meeting ended, a woman sitting just
outside the meeting room called me by my name and then smiled at me. I didn’t even notice her sitting in the
meeting room. I am not sure that I would
have even given it a second thought had she not said something. I am not even sure what I said to make her
remember who I was.
Despite being fuller in the face I knew who she
was. It was Lynn, my very first WW
leader.
I think about Lynn often and was ecstatic to
give her a giant hug. It was so good to
see her. I asked her how she has been
doing and she responded with, “well, I’m fat.”
I never really know how to respond when a WW
member, new or old, makes comments like that.
We have all been there a time or two and I am nothing but understanding
and sympathetic. Weight loss and
maintenance are both equally tough!
However, we are often much harder on ourselves then necessary.
Sure, I noticed she was fuller in the face then
the last time I saw her. I also know she
was struggling at the time she retired almost six years ago. What I didn’t remember is at that time she
was also dealing with a heart condition and continues to deal with it
today. It is easy to let your
maintenance program slide when focus is placed on other priorities.
Lynn could have just as easily left the meeting
that day without saying a word ti me but I am glad she didn’t. I have made contact her after I made goal as
she gave us all her email address. She
is also a friend on Facebook. I hope to
see her again and at least now I know where to find her. She asked that if I do attend the Monday
morning meeting again that I don’t “out her” as a leader, which I respect 100%. She said even when she was at her goal
weight, she liked attending meetings anonymously. WW leaders are WW members first and foremost
and attending a meeting anonymously allows them to be just another member among
the group.
I have been collecting photos of all my WW
leaders for a future blog post. I didn’t
feel I could ask Lynn for a photo the day I saw her. Who knows what the future will hold and if I
will feel comfortable in a future encounter.
I do know I was on cloud nine for the rest of the day after seeing
her.
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